Loving Objects.

 

Hell All. The topic which I am covering it all related to how we deal with heart and brain when it comes to take any decisions. There is always a collisions between these two objects and who ever wins the race, we follow them. But why this collisions? The facts which we must considered are

1. Age:- One of the major factor which is always plays it's game. People at very young age, always think from their heart. We called them as Kiddo age. It's very general, they are not able to judge anything and they do it by their own. The age between 1-7 yrs kids, who generally think from their heart and act accordingly. But the main plus point, being as a parent, if we can correct them, and give them a right directions to flow.

2. Teenage:- One of the most critical age for every one to pass through. No one has control on it. Neither self nor the parents. Generally 10-18 yrs of kids who falls into this hard trap of life. Those who can balance, can make different in life and those who go with the flow, it's difficult for them to bounce back to track.  This is the time when parents should be more friendly with their kids and help them to understand the reality of the world. I am sure many of us has no control on our heart and brain and as a result we feel our parents are the biggest enemies in the world. It's tough to accept but it's the reality. 

3. Young Age:- Always not necessary that Teenage kids only fall into this heart and brain game. People at 18-26 yrs also found to act immature. As per research and records, most of the self killing has found in this age, where there is no control on heart and brain balance. There are many reasons like drug addictions, love failure, exam pressures and so on. Many chose the wrong paths or take wrong directions, from where it's very difficult to take U Turn. 

5. Maturity:- This is age, where people use their brain to take decisions. I am not telling, what ever our brain takes decisions are always correct one.  People with 28th and above, the maturity starts from that age. It means they have proper connects between brain and heart.

Until we are able to get these connected with each other, it will be always difficult for us to go for the right directions. 

The role of a parent is not just give birth of a baby or take care of their requirements with some unrealistic or materialistic things. In present unrealistic world, the biggest competitor is EGO. EGO is good but when it's utilized in right place and right way. But here EGO is the competition between husband and wife. They are too busy to present them selves in-front of bright light, that they have completely forgotten the darkness of their shadow. Seeing their shadow if they think, it's the dark, it's quite true that they won't be able to create connects between themselves. The connections, the bridge or the foundation of future, which is required at the in the right time, if we failed to create, it's not the kid, it's our mistakes. Money is the necessity but as a same time, spending time, giving right directions, supporting for joy is equally required to give a bright future to our kids. Until we, as a parents help our kids to connect with their brain and heart, it would be very difficult to create a good human being. Neither every one is Albert Einstein nor every one is APJ Abdul Kalam, but we can make a good human beings.

Time, which is very critical thing, but it's found 99.99% people don't have it. We are too busy with unnatural, unwanted things, we completely forget to invest our time in right place. People who gives value to time, I am sure they are very successful today. I DIDN'T MEAN THAT SUCCESSFUL in terms of making money. Successful means they have enjoyed the best moments of life. Family, the ultimate joy, which can not be compare with anything. Those who have balance their time with life, they are the most successful person in the world. The smallest to smallest joys, which may not repeat second time in life, if you missed that, you are not successful. You will get ample opportunities to make money, but once you missed any opportunity, that won't come back to you again.